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The mental load audit

Not the chores — the remembering. Who knows the shoe sizes, who notices the milk is out, who books the dentist. It's real work, it's constant, and it's easy to miss when you're not the one doing it. Answer honestly and you'll see the split.

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Your result

Here's how it actually splits.

0% you 0% shared 0% her, alone

What she's carrying on her own

    Take these three. Permanently.

    Not "help with" — own them. She should never have to think about them again.

    None of this means you're a bad husband. Most of this work was never assigned to anyone — it just landed, and once it landed it became invisible.

    You don't fix it with one big weekend. You fix it by owning a few things completely, forever, so they stop taking up room in her head.

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